Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Just Not Good

Well the hubby just got back from his follow up with the urologist and now he has a Hydrocoele. Pretty much its just a fluid sac that happens to 1 out of 10 that have a varicocele repair. He is a very unhappy guy right now and I think he is mad at me. I did not go to this appointment since it was just a follow up but the doctor was running behind so he was already annoyed. Once he did see the doc it was not the best of news. When I tried to follow on how it went because he did not automatically call he just told we he would have to have surgery again, another bill and another week off of work. Then he just said he had to get off the phone and go into work.

He is mad. Now I'm stuck at work and can not talk to him about it. I just want to cry.

9 comments:

  1. (((hugs))) I'm so sorry that the appointment didn't go well. Please don't blame this on yourself, though. This isn't anyone's fault.

    <3

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  2. :( So sorry to hear this!!! BIG ((HUGS))

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  3. I just stumbled across your blog. I saw your post on Lisa's page and thought Id take a look. Im so sorry your hubby is upset. I think they deal with things in a different way than we do. My dh tends to get upset with me too when ttc things arent going as planned.

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  4. I think it's time to take a "smoke break" and or a "mental health day". Positive vibes for you.

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  5. Aww Lindsay I'm sorry its happening this way! Hugs my girl. Thinking of you and hope the problem is resolved soon :)

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  6. oh, i'm so sorry. it is the worst when both or one of you are at work and can't talk, be together, or actually let your emotions out. :( :(

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  7. Oh honey, I am so sorry. Infertility can be such a huge stress inducer on everyone involved. {{{Hugs}}} and prayers.

    ICLW #59

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  8. Sorry you guys aren't having the best week! Conflict like this is so common in couples undergoing fertility treatment. I'm sure you will be able to work it out. Best wishes!

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